Author: Shelly O'Connell, Flirting Coach for Women

Shelly O'Connell is a Flirting Coaching for Women who want to gain confidence with flirting. I coach women to reframe flirting as a form of play and to deconstruct the patriarchal bs about it that limits women. I am an expert flirt and author of FINDING YOUR FLIRT. My professional and personal goals are to have women experience their joy and radiance through fun and engaging programs. Shelly trained at The Institute for Life Coach Training. She holds a Master of Divinity and a Bachelor of Science in Behavioral Science. She has an extensive background in women's advocacy and with Native American Spirituality. To speak with Shelly and/or to learn more please send a note with your interest to: https://shellyoconnell.com/contact/

Let’s Play! 💃

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Feeling like you need a bit more fun in your life? Well Sugar, you are in the right place. Let’s Play! That is the first understanding about flirting. It is you being playful with someone who captured your interest. As you flirt with them you are letting them know that you want to have fun … Continue reading Let’s Play! 💃 →

Master the Art of Flirting

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Want to take your flirting abilities to the next level? Cultivate charm, confidence, and the ability to navigate romantic interactions with Flirting Mastery. This package of ten coaching calls for women provides in-depth, ongoing support to assist you in surmounting your flirting challenges, refocus on your identified goals, practice The Art of Flirting in your … Continue reading Master the Art of Flirting →

Femme Fabulous

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Let’s talk about Femme Fabulous, which is the incredible attributes of being female. It includes your mind, your heart, your intellect, and your knowing. These contribute to your ways of being in the world. The feminine is powerful in fierce and gentle ways. It can be soft and give you moments of quiet observation and … Continue reading Femme Fabulous →

What If You Had It? The Flirt Factor.

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Imagine that wherever you go, heads turn toward you. Not because you are flirting but in relation to your powerful, engaging energy. This occurrence takes place regularly when you have “it.” It is the Flirt Factor, meaning the qualities that you embody once you are an expert flirt. They are Charismatic Confidence, Magnetic Energy, and … Continue reading What If You Had It? The Flirt Factor. →

Spice Up Interactions

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Spice Up Interactions anytime you like with flirtation. This is the special ingredient that elevates your essence. This is an insider tip, when your energy is transformed via flirtation you stand out, people notice you, and they respond to you in ways that shows their curiosity in you. The engagements that occur then are ones … Continue reading Spice Up Interactions →

Cultivate Charm, Confidence, & Romantic Interactions with Flirting Coaching Video

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https://youtu.be/Lv2cZn3twT0 Unlock the secrets to successful flirting. Get in-depth support during Flirting Coaching for Women. You can become an accomplished, confident flirt who attracts meaningful connections while having fun. Bring forth your sparkle, become magnetic, and authentically express your playful nature. You receive coaching that is tailored to you, to your specific intentions in a way … Continue reading Cultivate Charm, Confidence, & Romantic Interactions with Flirting Coaching Video →

Ignite Romance

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Dating can be a fun adventure of getting to know a person. It is a time to learn what makes each other light up and share your hopes and dreams. You might discover that you have similar interests or find each other’s pursuits fascinating. Ultimately, dating is the dance that is intended to lead to … Continue reading Ignite Romance →

Goodbyes are not forever…

Posted on by Shelly O'Connell, Flirting Coach for Women in Friday's Flirt, Goodbyes, Grief, Love

There is no Friday's Flirt this week because I have no words. My brother passed very unexpectedly. I am flying home for his funeral. I welcome all prayers, love, healing vibes, and wishes for safe travels. Wishing you love and beauty,ShellyFriday's Flirts will resume next week or when I am able. To share today’s Friday’s Flirt, please … Continue reading Goodbyes are not forever… →

Embrace Your Playful Nature Article

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Read Embrace Your Playful Nature an article that I wrote for the May/June issue of On Purpose Woman Magazine. In it I share tips to inspire you to incorporate playfulness into your day. Find it on page 114 of this wonderful magazine. I highly recommend that you read the magazine in its entirety. There are … Continue reading Embrace Your Playful Nature Article →

Attract the Right Match

Posted on by Shelly O'Connell, Flirting Coach for Women in Attract the Right Match, Attraction, Authentic Relationships, Beginning, Connections, Curiosity, Dating, Desires, Dreams, Engage, Finesse, Flirtation, Flirting, Flirting Coaching, Flirting Tips, Friday's Flirt, Happiness, Love, Partner, Playfulness, Relationships, Women

Did you know that flirting has the potential to Attract the Right Match? When done with finesse, flirtation can bring a partner who fits you. Someone who gets you, adores you, and is committed to knowing you at a deep level. A person you can have fun with and explore doing things together. Flirting can … Continue reading Attract the Right Match →