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Restore Your Vibrancy with Flirting

Has the continual cold, snow, or rain got you feeling blah and weary? Sometimes, the persistence of dreary can take a toll. It even happens to me occasionally, when I forget that I have the power to shift my feeling and energy if I choose.  That is right. I have the power and so do … Continue reading Restore Your Vibrancy with Flirting

You Can be Confident in Flirting

I know that you have been building on your flirting skills and yet there may still be times that you feel unsure of flirting. Perhaps you act confident but lose your cool if someone talks with you. Maybe things are going well until you begin to have feelings for the other person. It is not uncommon … Continue reading You Can be Confident in Flirting

Flirting Helps You Shine

Hi ladies. Did you know that Flirting Helps You Shine? It is true! You will not see it unless there happens to be a mirror or glass close by. What you will experience is an expansion of your energy that feels great! Read more about this in Friday's Flirt, my weekly Flirting Tips for women. … Continue reading Flirting Helps You Shine

3 Key Tips to Flirting Success

There are many things that make flirting great. Here are the 3 Key Tips to Flirting Success.  Remember to have fun and to reframe flirting as being playful. Flirting is something that we do for ourselves because it is fun! It brings us enjoyment, vitality, and openness.  Know your boundaries before you flirt. Be aware of them while … Continue reading 3 Key Tips to Flirting Success

Moving Beyond a Hookup

First, let me say there is nothing inherently wrong with a hookup. If it is something that you want and you feel good about it, then get it girl! However, if you have grown weary of this short-lived physical joining without any depth, then you might consider Moving Beyond a Hookup.  A few things to think about … Continue reading Moving Beyond a Hookup

Flirting Class Memberships for Women

Flirting is the key to any great relationship. It is the secret ingredient that keeps your relationship fresh. You add fun, playfulness, laughter, and sexiness to your relationship when you flirt with your partner. The connection you have together is deepened too. Women can now join Flirting Class to learn how. See membership details below.  FLIRTING … Continue reading Flirting Class Memberships for Women

How to Grow your love capacity by releasing negative emotions interview

I had the opportunity to speak with Joie Gharrity about her book, Being Your Own Superstar: How to Expand Your Love Capacity, which had a powerful impact upon me. Content Creator, Joie Gharrity worked in the Hollywood entertainment industry for 15+ years. In her book Being Your Own Superstar: How To Expand Your Love Capacity … Continue reading How to Grow your love capacity by releasing negative emotions interview

Flirting with exotic lipsticks masterclass for women

Women discover your hidden Diva during this fun and flirty event, Flirting with Exotic Lipsticks Masterclass. Prepare to unleash your wild side in time for Halloween. During this delightfully playful experience you will learn how to flirt with lipstick, mesmerize men, the meaning of your kiss imprint, be introduced to exotic lip colors, have a … Continue reading Flirting with exotic lipsticks masterclass for women

Fun Flirting Event for women! 3 Tips to attract a guy masterclass

Hey ladies, want to attract a guy? Not sure how to go about it? Newly single or needing to build confidence in attracting a guy? Join me, Shelly O'Connell, Expert Flirt, and Flirting Coach for Women, for this Fun Flirting Event! 3 Key Tips to Attract a Guy Masterclass. Discover 3 key flirting tips to … Continue reading Fun Flirting Event for women! 3 Tips to attract a guy masterclass

Lipstick Flirting & Fun Masterclass for women August 9, 2022, 4pm – 5pm Pacific

Hey Sugar, give yourself an hour of fun with our Lipstick Flirting and Fun Masterclass for Women. Men are mesmerized when you apply lipstick, making it the ideal time to flirt. During this playful experience you will learn ways you can flirt with lipstick, find out what your kiss imprint means, discover flirty lip colors, … Continue reading Lipstick Flirting & Fun Masterclass for women August 9, 2022, 4pm – 5pm Pacific

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The Shift to What I am doing now

Life holds interesting twists and turns. You might find yourself arriving at completely unexpected place. That happened to me. Perhaps you have noticed that my focus here is different from the past. Let me take you on a journey of how that transition came to be. When I started this blog, it was to share … Continue reading The Shift to What I am doing now

Flirting Fun and Openness Article

This article talks about flirting as a form of play. Interested in having fun and openness in your life? Read my article on flirting in the the On Purpose Woman Magazine. Use the link and turn to page 18 to learn more about flirting. https://l.facebook.com/l.php?u=https%3A%2F%2Ftinyurl.com%2F56w86upy%3Ffbclid%3DIwAR195UojLRmjYOvMdK-3_hmZw7_Q2b6tvymDNZWklPrXWB9T_TgbvwjRjY0&h=AT2bfxuEcHQom1QpymIj2h7f2zoiPeROiAvhfV5lVcL5sWt_N_sTrnHcnLVog3Ik8UzhzSCElCXZXC1QI0Sy3vxbAreZ6BtutYytXHjDiCM3uPUhfBcmbnwVEVdhxzpGRxXhQ0v334SmyVpzMw&__tn__=-UK-R&c%5B0%5D=AT29he1f1ECyed4EtqYVTStMnJM-XkQPsJ2YoYzosbBtN9WuMOx2bCBsVrMurS6z15fTYb65iPSaRMQVu_tE6f4m18Ul6MztTMBJXhn2sWU9hJKvU9wMOodh1dU9Msu2TD34p3UgVsj4VK9fPKapY8T6TTndc6wzVP8rtmypbr7l-EuWJOKGfK-35hoSRm72URjdW_xC

Giving Yourself Permission Magazine Article

The Nov/Dec Issue of On Purpose Woman ONLINE Magazine is here! https://pub.lucidpress.com/28d0be83-037e-4660-83d0-f92c4f8f053e/?fbclid=IwAR3OOvhhEQTplTQacORZ8fuJShZO__YUNEha01m_9QJ0FwIXm35rURbzZnA#csu_ZLn1p1qc This is a wonderful magazine arriving in a moment when you may need it. Check out the amazing articles and advertisers. I had the opportunity to write an artcle titled, "Giving Yourself Permission." Let me know your thoughts.

When Wisdom Leads

I wrote an article about wisdom and what happens when you allow it to lead you. It can be found in the current issue of the On Purpose Woman Magazine. Here is the link: https://pub.lucidpress.com/24d295d9-40b1-4da9-ac6d-ed13a4d5bc1c/?fbclid=IwAR3RQDrYr9NDlDtEAMXge5H3nlfosx971cxfeldNZ_Wpe-HYkdpB5VZDGzw#URP_ulk8bL~V I enjoyed reading the other contributions to this wonderful magazine. I hope you do too.

Pull Together to Lighten the Load

I've been thinking about division and how it increases the heaviness of our burdens. When we divide and have an us or them view it narrows our potential support, resources and opportunities for new possiblities. This makes any load that we are carrying that much harder to bear and move. Think of it this way: … Continue reading Pull Together to Lighten the Load

You Can Say No Program

Many people find that they are challenged in saying yes to what they want or they put what they want last. Because this is so prevalent in our lives I created a program to assist with saying no. It is the You Can Say No Program. This program allows you to explore saying no so … Continue reading You Can Say No Program

Your Ability To Say No Quiz

Hi everyone, I am offering a NEW Program with special rates through August 19, 2019! It is the You Can Say No Program. This program allows you to explore saying no so that you can say yes to what you truly want. This program is for you if you want to: gain or strengthen your … Continue reading Your Ability To Say No Quiz

Claim Your Wisdom

Knowing what nurtures, supports and fulfills you is a part of having wisdom. Awareness of what drains, constrains and diminishes you is another factor of wisdom. Designing your days to uplift what enriches you while shedding what keeps you small is how you begin to claim your wisdom. Start to notice little moments and actions … Continue reading Claim Your Wisdom

Find The Fun

As a part of your self-support plan include some fun. Taking the time to play and laugh opens you to possibilites that you might not have considered. Fun renews you and places you fully in the present moment. Playfulness and fun are trying to engage you. Notice them and let them in. If you get … Continue reading Find The Fun