Did you know that when you flirt your energy is lit up? This means that you actually bring forth more of your true essence. The filters or walls that you normally have around you fall away revealing your authentic self. You seem to glow in a way that is captivating.Honestly, Sugar, people cannot get enough … Continue reading Dazzle Them with Your Glow
Flirting is a form of play that can renew you. Click on the title to see and hear the video where Shelly O'Connell, Flirting Coach for Women and author of Finding Your Flirt talks about how you can be renewed in the small moments by utilizing flirting.
I see you out there. I notice your effort, the hard work you are doing every single day. I see the way you show up for your family, friends, and colleagues. I witness the drive and dedication you have to making your business or your life a success. You are on fire.I see you. I pay attention … Continue reading Friday’s Flirt – Flirting, Fun, and Confidence
Would you like to have more fun in your life? Join me at the Women Loving Life Summit happening this Friday, August 25th and Saturday, August 26th. I will be speaking on Key Flirting Tips to Up Your Level of Fun. Learn how to approach flirting as being playful. Discover how to move past the made-up … Continue reading Would You lIke To have More Fun In Your Life?
I’m speaking at the Women Loving Life Summit. It’s FREE to register. I will be speaking on "Key Flirting Tips to Up Your Level of Fun." This is going to be a lively and fun event. Join us! Go to: https://sowll--mca.thrivecart.com/womenlovinglife-summit-free-ticket/ Looking forward to seeing you there, babe! Shelly
Flirting and fun go hand in hand. When you are flirtatious it can bring you and others incredible fun. Along with the connections it creates, flirting brings forth playful moods. Summer is an ideal time to get out there and experiment. What would be fun for you? Think about the flirting tips you have implemented. Have … Continue reading Friday’s Flirt – Summer Calls for Fun & Flirting
Did you know that there is yet another benefit to flirting? Here it is...Flirting Generates Smiles! This is actually very cool because when you are smiling you appear open and approachable. Perhaps that is why men have a habit of instructing women to smile. No need to smile just because a man says so. Instead, think … Continue reading Friday’s Flirt – Flirting Generates Smiles
What would you rate as your level fun? Would you claim it as overflowing, occasionally, sometimes, or non-existent? Do you play and have fun daily, weekly, monthly, or rarely? Fun is one area that we are never taught to measure. Because that is true, we can forget to include it in our daily lives. Fun has a … Continue reading Friday’s Flirt – Up Your Level of Fun
Ladies, did you know that you can join my Flirting Fun & Finesse Facebook Group? This is a place where you can get additional insights on flirting, practice flirting in this private group, and view videos of me talking about flirting in more detail. You can ask questions, share your experiences around flirting and more. Sorry … Continue reading Friday’s Flirt – Flirting Fun & Finesse
Allow me to introduce you to the On Purpose Woman Magazine. Let me say that it is a wonderful resource for women! This online magazine contains informative, thought-provoking articles written by women. You can learn about amazing women doing interesting and meaningful work. Fun is in this publication too. Take a moment to read How to Flirt: Tips … Continue reading Friday’s Flirt – How to Flirt: Tips for Successful Flirting Article
Start to Think of Flirting as Self-Care. When you are flirting you are raising your energy, radiance, and vibration to one of fun and play. This automatically makes you feel great! You shine with happiness when you are engaged in flirting with another person. Worries, stress, and the hassles of the day melt away. You live … Continue reading Friday’s Flirt – Think of Flirting as Self-Care
Summertime is the perfect time to practice flirting. We tend to be more adventurous during this season as we set out to explore and enjoy being outside. There is a lightness to summer that brings forth playfulness. These things lend themselves to being flirtatious. Everything is amplified in the summer. It is a season of … Continue reading Friday’s Flirt – Bring on the Heat with Flirting
I had the opportunity to talk with Lona DeRieux during her show, Steps to Feel Good Daily with Lona. She shares tips to feel good each day and interviews guests who share similar information. During this show we talked about ways that flirting makes you feel good. I gave tips and information on flirting. We … Continue reading Steps to Feel Good Daily Interview
Flirting Connects You and it does so in powerful ways! Flirting connects you to others in fun and delightful ways. It bridges the space of being in your mind to living in your body. Flirting links you to the magnificence of nature. Most importantly, it opens you to your inner power, beauty, and radiance.When you flirt, you … Continue reading Flirting Connects You
Hi Babe, do you ever have a moment or a day that leaves you stressed? I am sure you have been there. Your shoulders start getting tense and closer to your ears. The muscles in your body tighten, and your brain begins working overtime. It can be overwhelming. Not to worry, there is an easy solution. If … Continue reading Feeling Frazzled? Flirt!
Tired of being ghosted? Want to keep your power in dating and relationships? Consider Flirting Coaching to help you gain confidence, have fun and have ongoing support. Hi, I am Shelly O’Connell, Flirting Coach for Women, and the Author of FINDING YOUR FLIRT. I coach women to gain confidence flirting, enhance their connections, and shine … Continue reading Tired of Being Ghosted?
Hiya, today we are talking about Sex & Flirting. Oh, wait. You are thinking that flirting is so much more than sexual gratification. Yes, that is completely true! The past Friday's Flirt have covered the many topics of what flirting truly is at heart. Being playful, having confidence, staying in the moment, engaging in fun, … Continue reading Friday’s Flirt – Sex & Flirting
I had the opportunity to write an article about flirting for the On Purpose Woman Magazine. The article is titled: A Fresh Take on Flirting. I shared the basics of flirting and some information that might surprise you. I talked about what flirting really is and what impact it can have upon you. It is … Continue reading A Fresh Take on Flirting
Are you currently in a relationship or do you want to be? There can be many great things about relationships, and they can have their challenges too. Being together is wonderful! And yet relationships may sometimes feel stagnant, dull, or even downright boring. Especially if you have been together for a while. It does not have … Continue reading Make Relationships More Interesting
The first key to play is giving yourself permission to have fun. You may feel silly or unsure if you are unaccustomed to engaging in play. That is okay. Let yourself go beyond your comfort zone. Enter into a playful activity that stretches you. You may discover something new and exciting.Keep the following in mind as You Learn How … Continue reading Learn How to Play with Flirting
Did you know that you can bring flirting to nearly any situation? Here is a recent example. On a rainy day my husband and I were out and about. He parked the truck. When I opened the door there was a large mud puddle where I would be getting out. I let him know and … Continue reading Flirting Brings Fun to Rainy Days
Hi lovely, Your Specific Flirting Goals and Concerns are important. They are the places where you have trouble when it comes to flirting, and they are what you hope for too. You have areas that are specific to you and there may be similarities that you share with other women when it comes to flirting. Sometimes it … Continue reading Your Specific Flirting Goals and Concerns
Do you ever think you are not good enough or unworthy? Maybe you wonder what someone could see in you or think you have nothing to offer. It is quite common for women to doubt their selves. Most have been conditioned to think they are lacking in some way. There is pervasive messaging to this effect in our … Continue reading Move Past Doubting Yourself
Has the continual cold, snow, or rain got you feeling blah and weary? Sometimes, the persistence of dreary can take a toll. It even happens to me occasionally, when I forget that I have the power to shift my feeling and energy if I choose. That is right. I have the power and so do … Continue reading Restore Your Vibrancy with Flirting
I know that you have been building on your flirting skills and yet there may still be times that you feel unsure of flirting. Perhaps you act confident but lose your cool if someone talks with you. Maybe things are going well until you begin to have feelings for the other person. It is not uncommon … Continue reading You Can be Confident in Flirting
Hi ladies. Did you know that Flirting Helps You Shine? It is true! You will not see it unless there happens to be a mirror or glass close by. What you will experience is an expansion of your energy that feels great! Read more about this in Friday's Flirt, my weekly Flirting Tips for women. … Continue reading Flirting Helps You Shine
There are many things that make flirting great. Here are the 3 Key Tips to Flirting Success. Remember to have fun and to reframe flirting as being playful. Flirting is something that we do for ourselves because it is fun! It brings us enjoyment, vitality, and openness. Know your boundaries before you flirt. Be aware of them while … Continue reading 3 Key Tips to Flirting Success
First, let me say there is nothing inherently wrong with a hookup. If it is something that you want and you feel good about it, then get it girl! However, if you have grown weary of this short-lived physical joining without any depth, then you might consider Moving Beyond a Hookup. A few things to think about … Continue reading Moving Beyond a Hookup
Flirting is the key to any great relationship. It is the secret ingredient that keeps your relationship fresh. You add fun, playfulness, laughter, and sexiness to your relationship when you flirt with your partner. The connection you have together is deepened too. Women can now join Flirting Class to learn how. See membership details below. FLIRTING … Continue reading Flirting Class Memberships for Women
I had the opportunity to speak with Joie Gharrity about her book, Being Your Own Superstar: How to Expand Your Love Capacity, which had a powerful impact upon me. Content Creator, Joie Gharrity worked in the Hollywood entertainment industry for 15+ years. In her book Being Your Own Superstar: How To Expand Your Love Capacity … Continue reading How to Grow your love capacity by releasing negative emotions interview
Women discover your hidden Diva during this fun and flirty event, Flirting with Exotic Lipsticks Masterclass. Prepare to unleash your wild side in time for Halloween. During this delightfully playful experience you will learn how to flirt with lipstick, mesmerize men, the meaning of your kiss imprint, be introduced to exotic lip colors, have a … Continue reading Flirting with exotic lipsticks masterclass for women
Hey ladies, want to attract a guy? Not sure how to go about it? Newly single or needing to build confidence in attracting a guy? Join me, Shelly O'Connell, Expert Flirt, and Flirting Coach for Women, for this Fun Flirting Event! 3 Key Tips to Attract a Guy Masterclass. Discover 3 key flirting tips to … Continue reading Fun Flirting Event for women! 3 Tips to attract a guy masterclass
Hey Sugar, give yourself an hour of fun with our Lipstick Flirting and Fun Masterclass for Women. Men are mesmerized when you apply lipstick, making it the ideal time to flirt. During this playful experience you will learn ways you can flirt with lipstick, find out what your kiss imprint means, discover flirty lip colors, … Continue reading Lipstick Flirting & Fun Masterclass for women August 9, 2022, 4pm – 5pm Pacific
Friday's Flirts eBook contains 54 Weeks of Flirting Tips for Women. These tips reframe flirting as a form of play. They help you gain confidence flirting, have more fun, deepen your connections and allow you to enjoy the benefits of play. The tips in this eBook are a comprised of weekly flirting tips written by … Continue reading Friday’s Flirts eBook
Life holds interesting twists and turns. You might find yourself arriving at completely unexpected place. That happened to me. Perhaps you have noticed that my focus here is different from the past. Let me take you on a journey of how that transition came to be. When I started this blog, it was to share … Continue reading The Shift to What I am doing now
This article talks about flirting as a form of play. Interested in having fun and openness in your life? Read my article on flirting in the the On Purpose Woman Magazine. Use the link and turn to page 18 to learn more about flirting. https://l.facebook.com/l.php?u=https%3A%2F%2Ftinyurl.com%2F56w86upy%3Ffbclid%3DIwAR195UojLRmjYOvMdK-3_hmZw7_Q2b6tvymDNZWklPrXWB9T_TgbvwjRjY0&h=AT2bfxuEcHQom1QpymIj2h7f2zoiPeROiAvhfV5lVcL5sWt_N_sTrnHcnLVog3Ik8UzhzSCElCXZXC1QI0Sy3vxbAreZ6BtutYytXHjDiCM3uPUhfBcmbnwVEVdhxzpGRxXhQ0v334SmyVpzMw&__tn__=-UK-R&c%5B0%5D=AT29he1f1ECyed4EtqYVTStMnJM-XkQPsJ2YoYzosbBtN9WuMOx2bCBsVrMurS6z15fTYb65iPSaRMQVu_tE6f4m18Ul6MztTMBJXhn2sWU9hJKvU9wMOodh1dU9Msu2TD34p3UgVsj4VK9fPKapY8T6TTndc6wzVP8rtmypbr7l-EuWJOKGfK-35hoSRm72URjdW_xC
The Nov/Dec Issue of On Purpose Woman ONLINE Magazine is here! https://pub.lucidpress.com/28d0be83-037e-4660-83d0-f92c4f8f053e/?fbclid=IwAR3OOvhhEQTplTQacORZ8fuJShZO__YUNEha01m_9QJ0FwIXm35rURbzZnA#csu_ZLn1p1qc This is a wonderful magazine arriving in a moment when you may need it. Check out the amazing articles and advertisers. I had the opportunity to write an artcle titled, "Giving Yourself Permission." Let me know your thoughts.
I wrote an article about wisdom and what happens when you allow it to lead you. It can be found in the current issue of the On Purpose Woman Magazine. Here is the link: https://pub.lucidpress.com/24d295d9-40b1-4da9-ac6d-ed13a4d5bc1c/?fbclid=IwAR3RQDrYr9NDlDtEAMXge5H3nlfosx971cxfeldNZ_Wpe-HYkdpB5VZDGzw#URP_ulk8bL~V I enjoyed reading the other contributions to this wonderful magazine. I hope you do too.
I had the opportunity to talk in more detail about wisdom during this interview with Kathryn Yarborough for Real Women. Real Purpose. Talk Show. The On Purpose Woman Global Community. You can listen to the interview here: https://youtu.be/H85fga01UQ8 Let me know your thoughts.
I had an opportunity to write an article titled, "A Feminine Response" for the On Purpose Woman Magazine. There are many amazing women contributers. See if one speaks to you. Image and cover art by Valerie Rich for On Purpose Woman Magazine Here is the link: On Purpose Woman Magazine Enjoy!
I've been thinking about division and how it increases the heaviness of our burdens. When we divide and have an us or them view it narrows our potential support, resources and opportunities for new possiblities. This makes any load that we are carrying that much harder to bear and move. Think of it this way: … Continue reading Pull Together to Lighten the Load
Many people find that they are challenged in saying yes to what they want or they put what they want last. Because this is so prevalent in our lives I created a program to assist with saying no. It is the You Can Say No Program. This program allows you to explore saying no so … Continue reading You Can Say No Program
Hi everyone, I am offering a NEW Program with special rates through August 19, 2019! It is the You Can Say No Program. This program allows you to explore saying no so that you can say yes to what you truly want. This program is for you if you want to: gain or strengthen your … Continue reading Your Ability To Say No Quiz
Knowing what nurtures, supports and fulfills you is a part of having wisdom. Awareness of what drains, constrains and diminishes you is another factor of wisdom. Designing your days to uplift what enriches you while shedding what keeps you small is how you begin to claim your wisdom. Start to notice little moments and actions … Continue reading Claim Your Wisdom
As a part of your self-support plan include some fun. Taking the time to play and laugh opens you to possibilites that you might not have considered. Fun renews you and places you fully in the present moment. Playfulness and fun are trying to engage you. Notice them and let them in. If you get … Continue reading Find The Fun