Author: Shelly O'Connell, Flirting Coach for Women

Shelly O'Connell is a Flirting Coaching for Women who want to gain confidence with flirting. I coach women to reframe flirting as a form of play and to deconstruct the patriarchal bs about it that limits women. I am an expert flirt and author of FINDING YOUR FLIRT. My professional and personal goals are to have women experience their joy and radiance through fun and engaging programs. Shelly trained at The Institute for Life Coach Training. She holds a Master of Divinity and a Bachelor of Science in Behavioral Science. She has an extensive background in women's advocacy and with Native American Spirituality. To speak with Shelly and/or to learn more please send a note with your interest to: https://shellyoconnell.com/contact/

Dating Shouldn’t Feel Like a Full-Time Job, Flirting Coaching Can Help

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You can be smart, successful, and confident in every other area of your life and still feel uncertain when it comes to dating. Maybe you overthink what to say, struggle to tell if a man is interested, or wonder why meeting someone meaningful feels harder than it should. Here’s the truth, attracting the right connection … Continue reading Dating Shouldn’t Feel Like a Full-Time Job, Flirting Coaching Can Help →

Have You Ever Felt Like You Were Missing Something?

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Have you ever looked around at your life and thought, “I have so much to be grateful for, so why does it feel like something is missing?” Maybe you’re successful, independent, and perfectly capable of handling just about anything life throws your way. Yet, beneath all that competence, you’re craving more excitement, deeper connection, or … Continue reading Have You Ever Felt Like You Were Missing Something? →

How to Be Magnetic Without Saying Much at All

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Written by Shelly O'Connell, Flirting Coach for Women Executive Contributor Shelly O'Connell Shelly O’Connell is redefining flirting by challenging outdated assumptions with fun, insightful perspectives. She is a Flirting Coach for Women and the author of the book, Finding Your Flirt. What if you didn't have to say the perfect thing to create attraction? What … Continue reading How to Be Magnetic Without Saying Much at All →

Is He Flirting with Me or Am I Imagining It?

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You know the moment. He holds your gaze a little longer. He finds a reason to come talk to you. There’s a little teasing, a little warmth, maybe a hint of something you can’t quite explain. And then your brain jumps in: Is he flirting with me… or am I completely making this up? You … Continue reading Is He Flirting with Me or Am I Imagining It? →

What Men Notice First And It’s Not What You Think

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Written by Shelly O'Connell, Flirting Coach for Women Shelly O’Connell is redefining flirting by challenging outdated assumptions with fun, insightful perspectives. She is a Flirting Coach for Women and the author of the book, Finding Your Flirt. Executive Contributor Shelly O'Connell There is a lot of pressure placed on women when it comes to attraction. … Continue reading What Men Notice First And It’s Not What You Think →

Stop Chasing the Spark. Start Being the Spark.

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We’ve been taught to look for the spark that instant rush, the butterflies, the undeniable chemistry. Truthfully, the spark isn’t something you have to sit around hoping will happen it’s something you can create. Put down the mental checklist and get into the moment. Instead of analyzing every word or trying to predict where this … Continue reading Stop Chasing the Spark. Start Being the Spark. →

Your Spark is Magnetic

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https://videopress.com/v/hDBHwtta?resizeToParent=true&cover=true&preloadContent=metadata&useAverageColor=true Your Spark is Magnetic Sometimes the sweetest sparks have nothing to do with dating. They happen when someone notices you, thinks of you, and simply decides to make your day a little easier. While I was away on vacation, my friend, Ciro DeLucia surprised me by creating this week’s Friday’s Flirt video. His message … Continue reading Your Spark is Magnetic →

Pause, Darling. Life Is Meant to Be Enjoyed.

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What if you didn’t have to rush to the next thing? What if, for just a moment, you stopped checking the list, solving the problem, or figuring out what comes next and simply enjoyed where you are? Take the long sip of coffee. Feel the cooler breeze on your skin. Notice the way someone smiles … Continue reading Pause, Darling. Life Is Meant to Be Enjoyed. →

You’ve Mastered Life. Now Rediscover the Art of Attraction.

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This post is for the woman who knows how to make things happen but wants love to feel less like something to figure out and more like something to experience… You’ve built a life you’re proud of. You’re capable, independent, accomplished, and probably used to knowing exactly what to do to get results. But dating … Continue reading You’ve Mastered Life. Now Rediscover the Art of Attraction. →