Executive Contributor – Shelly O'Connell

What Men Notice First And It’s Not What You Think

Posted on September 25, 2026September 23, 2026 by Shelly O'Connell, Flirting Coach for Women in Advanced Flirting Skills, Approachable, Attraction, Be Present, Brainz Magazine, Chemistry, Confidence, Connections, Dancing, Dating, Desirable, Desirable Woman, Discover Flirting Secrets, Effortless, Engage with Life, Enjoying Your Company, Executive Contributor, Expert Flirting Tips, Flirtation, Flirting Coaching, Flirting Tips, Fluent in Dude, Friday's Flirt, Fun, Magnetic, Men, Notice, Overthinking, Presence, Relationships, Sensual, Something About Her, Spark, What Men Notice First, Women

Written by Shelly O'Connell, Flirting Coach for Women Shelly O’Connell is redefining flirting by challenging outdated assumptions with fun, insightful perspectives. She is a Flirting Coach for Women and the author of the book, Finding Your Flirt. Executive Contributor Shelly O'Connell There is a lot of pressure placed on women when it comes to attraction. … Continue reading What Men Notice First And It’s Not What You Think →

The Woman You’ve Been Missing Is Still Within You: Discover Your Inner Flirt and Reclaim Her

Posted on August 28, 2026August 24, 2026 by Shelly O'Connell, Flirting Coach for Women in Accomplished, Advanced Flirting Skills, Aliveness, Being Yourself, Brainz Magazine, Confidence, Culture of Play, Curiosity, Discover Flirting Secrets, Embrace the Art of Playful Engagement, Executive Contributor, Feminine Essence, Finding Your Flirt, Flirtation, Flirting Success, Flirting Techniques, Flirting Tips, Friday's Flirt, Fun, I hope they like me, Magnetic, Openness, Opportunities, Play, Playfulness, Radiance, Rediscover You, Successful, Vibrant, Women

Written by Shelly O’Connell, Flirting, Confidence, and Relationship Coach for Women Executive Contributor for Brainz Magazine Shelly O’Connell is redefining flirting by challenging outdated assumptions with fun, insightful perspectives. She is a Flirting Coach for Women and the author of the book, Finding Your Flirt. There is a moment many women know but rarely talk … Continue reading The Woman You’ve Been Missing Is Still Within You: Discover Your Inner Flirt and Reclaim Her →

How to Shift Your Energy and Instantly Elevate Your Flirting Game

Posted on February 27, 2026February 25, 2026 by Shelly O'Connell, Flirting Coach for Women in Attraction, Brainz Magazine, Connections, Dating, Energy, Executive Contributor, Flirtation, Flirting, Flirting Coaching, Flirting Tips, Friday's Flirt, Women

Forget pickup lines and rehearsed moves — real attraction starts with the vibe you bring into the room. Have you ever walked into a room and immediately noticed someone who seemed effortlessly magnetic? It wasn’t what they said. It wasn’t a clever line. It was their energy. If you’ve been focusing on what to say … Continue reading How to Shift Your Energy and Instantly Elevate Your Flirting Game →