Category: Dating

Let’s Talk Flirting (The Right Way)

Posted on by Shelly O'Connell, Flirting Coach for Women in Accomplished Flirt, Advanced Flirting Skills, Attract the Right Match, Authentic Relationships, Authenticity, Being Yourself, Confidence, Connections, Dating, Discover Flirting Secrets, Flirtation, Flirting, Flirting Coaching, Flirting Consultation, Flirting Mastery, Flirting Success, Flirting Tips, Friday's Flirt, Fun, Genuine Connections, Love It or Shove It Talk Show, Partner, Play, Playfulness, Podcast, Real Relationship, Shy, The Art of Flirtation, Women

What if flirting wasn’t about playing games, chasing attention, or hoping someone gets the hint—but instead about confidence, clarity, and connection?That’s exactly what we dove into on the Love It or Shove It talk show, where the conversation got flirty, fun, and oh-so intentional. 💃✨Join me and the incredible hosts of the Love it or Shove It talk show: Irina Portnova, Manifestation … Continue reading Let’s Talk Flirting (The Right Way) →

Flirting isn’t about being bold. It’s about being intentional.

Posted on by Shelly O'Connell, Flirting Coach for Women in Being, Being Yourself, Body Language, Bold, Clever, Confidence, Curiosity, Dating, Emotional Signaling, Expert Flirting Tips, Flirting, Flirting Coaching, Friday's Flirt, Genuine Interest, Genuinely Interested, Grounded, Happy, Interactions, Natural, Performative, Presence, Relationships, Timing, Tone, Warmth, Women

Most women think flirting means saying something clever or seductive.It doesn’t. Real flirting is emotional signaling—✔ warmth✔ curiosity✔ presence When a woman feels relaxed and genuinely interested, her body language, tone, and timing do the work for her. That’s why forcing “lines” almost always backfires. I coach women to flirt in a way that feels … Continue reading Flirting isn’t about being bold. It’s about being intentional. →

Magnetic Flirting

Posted on by Shelly O'Connell, Flirting Coach for Women in Attractive, Confidence, Connections, Dating, Energy, Engaging, Expert Flirting Tips, Feminine, Flirtation, Flirting, Flirting Coaching, Flirting Tips, Fluent in Dude, Friday's Flirt, Fun, Guys, Happiness, Love, Magnetic, Man, Meaningful Connections, Partner, Play, Power, Quality Man, Real Relationship, Romance, Significant Other, Skilled, Transform, Vibe, Women

Magnetic Flirting is a phrase I use to describe what happens once you become skilled in flirtation. It means that people and opportunities are drawn to you much like the irresistible pull of a magnet. Your energy is powerfully attractive when you are an accomplished flirt. Even more interesting is that your vibe can attract … Continue reading Magnetic Flirting →

Unwrap the Fun

Posted on by Shelly O'Connell, Flirting Coach for Women in Accomplished Flirt, Choice, Dating, Elevated, Exciting, Expert Flirting Tips, Flirtation, Flirting, Flirting Coaching, Flirting Tips, Friday's Flirt, Fun, Gift, Interactions, Lightness, Love, Mistletoe, Mojo, Open, Partner, Playfulness, Sizzling, Skill, Unwrap the Fun, Women

Hey, hey, hey, lady,  This holiday season enjoy the fun and lightness of flirtation. You keep yourself elevated and open when you flirt. This gives you the freedom and energy to fully enter the moment with delight. Unwrap the Fun is a phrase to help you remember that you can direct your interactions with skill … Continue reading Unwrap the Fun →

Stress Less, Flirt More

Posted on by Shelly O'Connell, Flirting Coach for Women in Alarming, Be Present, Busy, Centered, Confidence, Dating, Engaged, Flirtation, Flirting, Flirting Coaching, Flirting Tips, Friday's Flirt, Fun, Holidays, Inspiration, Lift, Love, Open, Partner, Playfulness, Present Moment, Stress, Women

We are headed into a very busy time of year with the holidays approaching. There is even more to get done. Not that it hasn’t already been a whirlwind on many levels. Our individual and collective levels of stress and alarm are off the charts. If you want to Stress Less, Flirt More. Flirting is … Continue reading Stress Less, Flirt More →

Discover the Nuances of Subtle Flirting

Posted on by Shelly O'Connell, Flirting Coach for Women in Attraction, Authentic, Being Yourself, Body Language, Compelled, Connections, Dating, Dynamic, Expert Flirting Tips, Expression, Eyes, Flashy, Flirtation, Flirtatiousness, Flirting Coaching, Flirting Consultation, Flirting Success, Flirting Techniques, Flirting Tips, Fluent in Dude, Free, Friday's Flirt, Impact, Increase Confidence, Intense, Nuances, Obvious, Partner, Relationships, Reluctant, Reserved, Subtle, Women

Have you felt reluctant to flirt? Could it be that you believe that flirting is flashy or needs to be intense for it to be recognized? Let me lay your concerns to rest. Flirting is many things, but most importantly it is central to who you are in life. This means that when you do … Continue reading Discover the Nuances of Subtle Flirting →

Flirt to Feel Fantastic!

Posted on by Shelly O'Connell, Flirting Coach for Women in Dating, Energize, Energy, Enjoy, Enjoy Life, Feel Good, Flirtation, Flirting, Flirting Coaching, Flirting Consultation, Flirting Tips, Fun, Love, Magnectic, Partner, Playfulness, Rejuvenate, Renewal, Sensuality, Women

Want to be vibrant and fully enjoying your life? One of the easiest and certainly most fun ways to raise your vibe is to flirt. Think of adding some playful moments into your day. You could put on some funky sunglasses and use them to add emphasis to your flirtatious eye contact with someone. Or … Continue reading Flirt to Feel Fantastic! →

Craft Your Flirt Message

Posted on by Shelly O'Connell, Flirting Coach for Women in Accomplished Flirt, Advanced Flirting Skills, Banter, Body Language, Couple, Dating, Emoji, Facial cues, Flirtation, Flirting, Flirting Coaching, Flirting Consultation, Flirting Success, Flirting Techniques, Flirting Tips, Free, Friday's Flirt, Fun, Kiss, Nuanced, Partner, Playfulness, Relationships, Spiritual, Text, Tone, Women

Women often ask me how to flirt via text message. This type of flirting is actually very nuanced. Primarily because it relies on the person you are texting already having some knowledge of you. Texts can come sometimes come across as flat, too formal, or vague. It can be difficult to determine their true meaning … Continue reading Craft Your Flirt Message →

It’s Autumn Baby!

Posted on by Shelly O'Connell, Flirting Coach for Women in Appreciation, Autumn, Be Present, Beauty, Dating, Deepen Connections, Feel-good Vibes, Flirtation, Flirting, Flirting Coaching, Flirting Consultation, Flirting Tips, Friday's Flirt, Happiness, Happy, Heat Up, Inspiration, Love, Partner, Pause, Real Relationship, Remedy, Restore, Romance, Slow Down, Snuggles, Stunning Color, Sublime, Warmth, Women

It’s Autumn Baby! This season holds endless beauty and inspiration. It can be a time to slow down and take it all in. There begins to be a nip in the air. These cooler temperatures and gentler pace make it the perfect time for Flirting & Snuggles. Nothing quite replaces the feeling you get when … Continue reading It’s Autumn Baby! →

Fun Autumn Adventures Await

Posted on by Shelly O'Connell, Flirting Coach for Women in Abundant, Adventures, Autumn, Cooler Weather, Couple, Cozy, Creative, Dating, Flirtation, Flirting, Flirting Coaching, Flirting Consultation, Flirting Success, Flirting Tips, Friday's Flirt, Fun, Hand-in-hand, Harvest, Haunted House, His arms, Interactions, Leaves, Love, Opportunities, Outdoor Picnic, Payment options, Playfulness, Relationships, Romantic, Season, Security, Stunning Color, Women

Fall brings cooler weather, stunning colors, and the chance to playfully enjoy this season. Fun Autumn Adventures Await you! And they all start with adding a bit of flirtation to the mix. With this you have the opportunity to be creative in your interactions. You could plan a romantic outdoor picnic, stroll hand-in-hand and gaze … Continue reading Fun Autumn Adventures Await →