Flirting & Dating naturally go together. They both strive to make connections. When you add playfulness to the interaction both participants enjoy themselves. Mutual interest is shown and deepened. This can be the beginning of something worthwhile. Over time it can even lead to a committed relationship.
Why then does dating oftentimes feel like a waste of your time? Are any of these true for you?
- You put forward a lot of energy and it has not gotten the results you are looking for.
- You keep being ghosted.
- You have an image of what you want in a guy and in a relationship that keeps you from recognizing what is right in front of you.
- You think you have to look a certain way in order to flirt or date.
Women have tremendous pressure put on them to act and look a specific way. But acting means that you are putting on a face or persona that is not your own. You can genuinely be yourself while flirting and dating. When you flirt and date as your true self you develop connections that are meaningful to you and those are the ones to cultivate.
Consider what is important to you and craft some boundaries before you flirt. Recognize that you are unique and wonderful just as you are right now. Start playfully flirting so you gain confidence in your ability to flirt. Remain open to the very real possibility that a relationship is on the horizon. And remember to have fun!
Enjoy, Shelly
P.S. (Still uncertain? Schedule your free Flirting Consultation to talk about it. Here is the link: https://schedulecoachingbyshelly.as.me/yourflirtingconsultation)
