Flirting with Your Lips

Posted on by Shelly O'Connell, Flirting Coach for Women in Body Language, Confidence, Engagement, Enjoyment, Facial cues, Flirtation, Flirting, Flirting Coaching, Flirting Tips, Friday's Flirt, Fun, Giveaway, Imagination, Key Skills, Lipstick, Mesmerize, Mood, Playfulness, Props, Senses, Smiles, Women

The mouth and lips play more of a role than you might imagine in non-verbal communication. That is why today’s topic is Flirting with Your Lips. In order to use them to effectively flirt it is helpful to understand their importance in conveying your mood and message to other people. 

Your mouth and lips tend to be indicators of what you are feeling. If you are at ease and happy your lips usually form a smile. When you feel stressed or worried your lips are held tightly together. You may have noticed when you are irritated or angry your lips construct a grimace. These are facial cues that people notice, and they respond to them.

It is very easy to incorporate your mouth and lips in flirtation. One of my favorite ways to flirt with my lips is to use the prop of lipstick or lip gloss. This tool draws attention to my lips as I playfully flirt by applying a fresh coat of color to my mouth. After I apply it, I look to whomever I am flirting with and then press my lips together to blot them. Then I give a little smile. This always results in a grin from the other person.

You can blow air kisses, bite your lip, or run your tongue over your lips for emphasis on the flirt. It is possible to incorporate food, a pen, a lipstick or lip gloss applicator to bring the focus to your mouth when you flirt. Go with whatever feels fun and right to you at the time. 

Big Smooches,
Shelly O’Connell, Flirting Coach for Women

GIVEAWAY! Get a free Mary Kay Lip Gloss with purchase of any Flirting Coaching package from now until September 15, 2024, to use when you practice Flirting with Your Lips! To view the different Flirting Coaching packages, visit the website. Here is the link: Shelly O’Connell – Flirting Coach for Women (shellyoconnell.com) Use this coupon code when purchasing: SEPTGIVELG

P.S. (I will send you the color options for the lip gloss after your purchase of your Flirting Coaching package. This is in support of my friend, Olivia Jones, Mary Kay Consultant.)

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Published by Shelly O'Connell, Flirting Coach for Women

Shelly O'Connell is a Flirting Coaching for Women who want to gain confidence with flirting. I coach women to reframe flirting as a form of play and to deconstruct the patriarchal bs about it that limits women. I am an expert flirt and author of FINDING YOUR FLIRT. My professional and personal goals are to have women experience their joy and radiance through fun and engaging programs. Shelly trained at The Institute for Life Coach Training. She holds a Master of Divinity and a Bachelor of Science in Behavioral Science. She has an extensive background in women's advocacy and with Native American Spirituality. To speak with Shelly and/or to learn more please send a note with your interest to: https://shellyoconnell.com/contact/

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