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Ever wondered how some women get a man with just a look?

Maybe you feel awkward when a man flirts with you? Do you judge women who flirt in public? You’ve forgotten the art of play. Here to remind you is a self-confessed triple-A flirt, one in a long matriarchal line of flirts, for whom the art is an everyday thing.

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Shelly O’Connell has observed, experimented, recorded, and now reveals the art of flirting, so you can play more too.

Shelly O’Connell, author of Finding Your Flirt and Flirting Coach for Women.

Shelly helps women flirt confidently, authentically, and attract the love they deserve.

Her professional and personal goals are to have women experience their joy and radiance through fun and engaging programs. Shelly lives in Northern California with her husband, Kevin, where she enjoys painting, dancing, being in nature, and of course, flirting.

Schedule your free conversation with Expert Flirt, Shelly O’Connell, Flirting Coaching for Women by clicking “Schedule a Consultation” at the top of this page.


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What People are Saying

Hey Girl, Let’s Talk About Flirting

Hey ladies, this is your chance to see and hear me talk about flirting. Here is what the host, Kathryn Yarborough, wrote about the interview, “During this interview with Shelly O’Connell, a Flirting Coach for Women, you’ll find out how to reclaim play via flirting so that you can engage with life in ways that enrich and delight you! How fun!”

It was fun! We got the chance to play and flirt a little too! I shared the story of how I got started being a flirting coach, some tips on flirting and we talked about my book, Finding Your Flirt. Check it out and let me know your thoughts. Tune into this interview on the Real Women. Real Purpose. Talk Show where Kathryn Yarborough interviewed Shelly O’Connell. Watch the replay. #RealWomenRealPurpose


read Reviews for Finding Your Flirt!

Good for every woman – single or married

I love this book! Every woman I know – single or married – could benefit from it. As Shelly O’Connell points out, most of us have lost touch with our playful sides. Finding Your Flirt reminded me to enjoy life more, gave me excellent tips on how to flirt in a way that feels good to me, and helped me feel confident about myself – just as I am. I’m going to get this book as a gift for women friends and family members. And if I forget to flirt and be playful, I’ll read this book again.

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Katheryn Y., Amazon Review

Lighten up!

Finding Your Flirt is an excellent journey to putting a smile on your face and more fun in your life. It gives practices and exercises to get your flirt on. Even if you are in a relationship, it is a beautiful reminder to keep it fresh and flirty and that having fun is possible. Thank you, Shelley, I am winking back at you!

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Mary P., Amazon Review

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Get Your Copy!

Don’t miss out on the fun you could be having!

Finding Your Flirt is available NOW on Amazon.com.


Can’t get enough of Shelly?

Here’s your chance to work with Shelly one-on-one! Talk about your flirting goals, get support breaking through comfort barriers, and most importantly bring more fun into your life! You’re worth it!


Flirting Mastery

Hey, Babe. Want to take your flirting abilities to the next level? Cultivate charm, confidence, and the ability to navigate romantic interactions with Flirting Mastery. This package of ten coaching calls for women provides in-depth, ongoing support to assist you in surmounting your flirting challenges, refocus on your identified goals, practice The Art of Flirting in your life, and learn the advanced flirting skills of:

  • Being Suggestive
  • Standing in Your Power
  • Charismatic Confidence
  • Flirting during Dating
  • Keeping Relationships Fresh with Flirting
  • Cultivating Your Magnetism

Each call is sixty minutes.

You can attain Flirting Mastery with support, encouragement, and coaching to accomplish your specific intentions in a way that honors who you are, and what is important to you regarding flirting. Want the fun to begin?

Let’s do this! Sign up here.


The Art Of Flirting

Learn to confidently flirt with The Art of Flirting. This program for women includes five coaching calls. Each call is sixty minutes. The key skills in the art of flirtation are included in this program. These are the tools that are needed in order to learn to flirt. They help you to sparkle and become magnetic while allowing you to authentically express your playful nature. You will discover how to:

  • Flirt using your eyes (this is the number one way to flirt).
  • Craft boundaries that are authentic to you and your flirting goals.
  • Practice noticing and responding to cues being sent to you.
  • Use your body to flirt, become aware of body language, and the importance of it in flirting.
  • Incorporate laughter and playfulness into your life with flirting.

You apply the flirting skills acquired during The Art of Flirting Program in your daily life so that you can become an accomplished, confident flirt who attracts meaningful connections while having fun.

Are you ready? Sign up now.
One payment of $997 or three payments of $447. Save $344 if paid in full. Total Value of $1,800.


FInd Your Flirt Personal Journey

Alright Sugar let’s create something that is tailored to your personal flirting needs. Whether you feel a few coaching calls on flirting would help you get your mojo fired up again, you want to take it one call at a time, or you decide on something else unique to coaching on flirting, let me know.

Each Find Your Flirt Personal Journey call is $297 for 60 minutes. I recommend booking a consultation to get clear on what could work for you. 


Your Flirting Consultation

Curious? Let’s talk about flirting. During this free 30-minute call we will cover your flirting goals and challenges and talk about the options of flirting coaching that are available to you.

Get your questions answered and decide what option could work best for you.


Getting ReADY TO Flirt, The Key elements training

If you want to feel comfortable and confident flirting. Gain a fresh perspective on flirting that gives you the tools to succeed. And learn key tips that help you get ready to flirt this training is for you.

Whether you are single, in a relationship, or want to be in a relationship, you can use Getting Ready to Flirt, The Key Elements Training to deepen your connections and gain confidence in your flirting ability all while having fun.

This online course containing three modules gives you the key elements to begin confidently flirting. Start now for only $197 (Valued at $499).


Flirt Merch

Add more fun to your day with Flirt Merch. This online store offers playful items to help you, and your friends get your flirt on.

All Flirt Merch products designed by Shelly O’Connell, expert flirt, and Flirting Coach for Women. 


Friday’s Flirt Ebook

This eBook contains 54 Weeks of Flirting Tips for Women. These tips reframe flirting as a form of play. They help you gain confidence flirting, have more fun, deepen your connections and allow you to enjoy the benefits of play. The tips in this eBook are a comprised of weekly flirting tips written by expert flirt, Shelly O’Connell, Flirting Coach for Women. The weekly tips are titled, Friday’s Flirt and are sent to subscribers each Friday. Cost is $29.00 plus tax. Enjoy!


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